Question by Rose: Adult advice would be good.Any ideas?
i’m so moody.My teenager has drove me nuts tonight.We end up venting on each other cause she is frustrated by chores,school and band.I am sick of her gushy verbal abuse and disrespect.She ignores me ,doesn’t get to bed on time/by 11PM weeknights,has groaned over dishes and mopping the kitchen floor once a week,it’s a small kitchen,and doing some laundry,about 2 loads which she has all week to do for a 20. a week allowance.I bring her back and forth to band all week and wait up late nights on the weekends for all her football games,also take her to the docs,took her to a waterpark all passed,got all her school clothes,contacts,haircut and a 200,tattoo she wanted.She’s groaning she has nothing for the future.I’m a single mother and so Yes,I have no college money to give her and cannot afford a car or even clothes for myself.I could desparately use shoes,clothes and eyeglasses but do not complain as long as her needs are met and she still treats me like dirt.It just makes me want to quit so bad and yet I hang on for her sake.I also am a christian and she claims to be an atheist no matter what I say.She is exhausting me and stresses me out.I told her I am her mother not her friend to be talking to that way and she says that’s all you’ll ever be like I am trash.I feel so worthless and she seems to enjoy every bit of it. I am so fed up with this balony.Kids may groan about being abused but many parents are too.I’d like to tear her butt up as i’ve heard others say but don’t lay a hand on her.I am concerned for her future as I can’t give her much but her behavior is my biggest concern as I can’t see how she will work for others with her attitude.What in the world to do?????Some days she is pretty good but the bad ones are terrible and I am diabetic and highblood and she stresses me away really bad.I want the best for her nevertheless.She has a nice room,full size bed,a nice desk,aquarium,tv and playstation,radio,dvd so she is not without.I just don’t get things till mostly birthdays and xmas.I try to listen to her every single day but when she is like this,I don’t flush want to be around her.Any ideas???

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Answer by samantha f
i am a teen but stop taking her places she learn

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